The Buccaneer’s Ball: Crimson Sails & Secret Tales – Preparation List

To ensure you’re fully prepared for a weekend of pirate revelry, please bring or prepare the following:

  1. Welcome Speech for “Charting the Course”:
    • Prepare a short speech to introduce yourselves as your chosen pirate characters.
    • Include your goals, desires, and boundaries for the weekend.
  2. Costume and Speech for “The Crowning of the New Pirate King/Queen”:
    • Prepare a costume for one partner to be presented as a candidate for Pirate King/Queen.
    • Prepare a speech extolling the virtues of your chosen candidate.
  3. Costume and Speech for “Walking the Plank”:
    • Prepare a costume for the partner who will be “walking the plank.”
    • Prepare a speech to present them to King Neptune, and instructions for the crew.
  4. Crafted Pirate Boat for “The Battle of the High Seas”:
    • Using the provided kit and approved materials, create a miniature pirate ship.
  5. Bottle of Rum (or other appropriate beverage):
    • Bring a bottle of rum or another beverage from your “homeland” to share during “Fire, Rum, and Tall Tales.”
  6. Clothing:
    • Bring comfortable clothing for warm days and cooler nights.
    • Costumes for the three events listed above.
  7. Towels:
    • Bring towels for use at the lagoon during “Morning Motion and Calisthenics.”
    • Towels for after the painting.
  8. Remember Safe Sex is Good Sex
    • If your desire is to explore make sure you have the items you need to do so safely

“Preparing for Adventure: Things to Think About Before You Come”

“To ensure a truly enriching and enjoyable experience at The Buccaneer’s Ball, we strongly encourage you and your partner to engage in open and honest communication before your arrival.

  • Open Communication is Key:
    • These events thrive on clear communication. Take the time to sit down with your partner and have a thorough conversation about your goals, desires, limits, and restrictions.
    • Discuss what you hope to gain from the weekend, both individually and as a couple.
    • Clearly articulate your boundaries and comfort levels, ensuring you are both on the same page.
  • Setting Expectations and Desires:
    • This is the time to openly express your expectations and desires for the weekend.
    • Whether you’re seeking deeper connection with your partner, exploring new sensual experiences, or connecting with other couples, clarity is essential.
    • By discussing these aspects beforehand, you’ll create a foundation of trust and understanding, allowing you to fully embrace the experience.
  • Creating a Shared Vision:
    • Use this pre-event conversation to create a shared vision for your weekend.
    • Discuss how you want to interact with other couples, what activities you’re most excited about, and how you can support each other throughout the event.
    • This collaborative approach will enhance your connection and ensure a more fulfilling experience.

Remember, The Buccaneer’s Ball is a safe and consensual space for exploration and connection. By engaging in open communication before you arrive, you’ll be well-prepared to embark on a truly unforgettable adventure.”